About Spain – "What a Country"



Spain observed by foreign reporters; more cultural diversity in one book is sheer impossible.

“Vaya Pais,” the original title is coordinated by a Swiss journalist (Werner Herzog) and portraits the country and its people by means of eighteen short stories. Written by the same number of journalists from nine different countries (The UK, Germany, Switzerland, Japan, the US, France, Mexico, Italy and The Netherlands). The book is presented by a journalist from El Pais, under the title; eighteen pairs of eyes and a single “Amor”…

IT is the same “AMOR” – does it need a translation? – that recently has been elected as the most beautiful Spanish word. (http://www.escueladeescritores.com/modules.php?name=Actividades&file=tienes-la-palabra).

“Amor” or not, this book is a jewel for everybody interested in Spain or culture. You will read about Spain as a country full of controversies, but you are also given insight in the culture of each of the author. One of the most striking details is that a few journalists wrote their article in their own language, whereas most wrote in Spanish. And language is where it starts with if you are to understand any country.

This (language) theme is written by Herzog himself and deals with the so-called “egocentrics” of the language. Where in most languages we say – “I’m coming or I’ll be with you in a moment,” this viewpoint is switched in Spain; where they utter the same in a different way – “I’m going to you”. Now or shortly. So it’s not the other person who gets the center of attention, but the subject who is expressing the phrase – mentioning that he will leave soon. (You just have to wait for him).

In fact this is not only a Spanish issue, but equally true for most South and Middle American dialects.
Spaniards do not get drunk. That is also interesting, more if you know who raised this topic. One of the brilliant habits is that people in Spain eat nearly always when they drink. First they eat and alcohol comes second. Ok, I can tell you that there are these minor exceptions, but it does seem true most of the time.

Most people who dwell on this territory for some time know that it is one of the most noisiest countries in the world, after I think lead by Japan. And it is just Masako from Japan raising this topic. But she mentions the difference with the inward drawn Japanese where Spaniard are much more outgoing, not only in frequenting restaurants, cafes and bars, but also referring to being more extraverted. It is nearly impossible to find nobody on the street during whatever hour during the day.
Catalunya is mentioned a few times in the book, together with the struggle for independence. And about the special relation between Catalunya and Holland in this (soccer) area, due to the influence of Johan Cruyff. Who is also very fond of the Catalan Community, but this love didn’t influence him to learn the Catalan Language.

The book is full of short precious anecdotes and other contributions for example from Portugal; about the Iberian Peninsula “that seems to stop at the Portuguese border.” About the demonstrations that “do not exist here. In France, we raise our voice about anything we do not agree with.” Its about solidarity “up to a certain level.” About information – “sometimes there is just not any available,” very annoying if you are used that it is there. About the Spanish patience when there is a roadblock. And about the soap you can write down when you have lived in an apartment for some time; never a dull moment. And about the talk shows where you should really try hard figuring out who is talking; all at the same time…

Indeed; what a country. It’s hard to understand this country, the people. But this book gives you some more clues. Con Amor…

- Vaya Pais, Werner Herzog (coord.) Aguilar 2006 -

Foreign Women – How to Avoid International Dating Disasters While Finding the Foreign Lady You Love



Men who seek to meet foreign women are looking to fulfill their dreams of love and romance through international dating. However most men fear the foreign ladies they get to know are only looking to trick them out of money or score a free ride to a richer country.

These fears are preyed upon by mainstream media which hypes and over sensationalizes stories of ill-fated foreign love affairs with the purpose of selling more newspapers and T.V. ad space.

How To Avoid International Dating Dangers

In reality the danger of fraud is not nearly the monster the news makes it out to be nor is it complicated to spot and avoid.

Leaping over the pitfalls and dodging the dangers of international dating is simple and only a question of common sense. Over ninety-five percent (95%) of the foreign women who are looking to date and marry men from other countries are honest ladies with sincere intentions; they are looking for love, friendship and affection just like the guys are.

Ongoing fraud investigations are showing that many of the cases initially thought to be master-minded by foreign women are run by men posing to be women. Many of the scams actually operate from inside the U.S. where con artists pretend to be women living in a foreign country. Beating these crooks at their own game only requires a touch of logic and good judgment.

There is one hard and fast rule which is guaranteed to protect your heart and your money one-hundred percent (100%) of the time you use it. The rule is, never send her any money. The reason for this may seem too simple to believe but it is the absolute reality.

A real woman from any country has too much pride to ask a man she only knows via online or postal letters and phone calls for financial support. No matter the reason, a lady who cares for you won’t ask you to help her with a telephone bill, internet payment, groceries or to cover the medical expenses of a sick or dying relative when she has not been with you.

She won’t ask you to pay for her visa or plane ticket to come see you until you have first traveled to go see her. If she is hinting at or requesting financial support before you meet her, it is highly advised you let her go.

If you communicate with a woman online who agrees to marry you before you meet her face-to-face, get away from her. Foreign women are passionate and affectionate but they are not Martians from outer space.

They don’t fall in love with men they have never kissed, they don’t ask for money from guys they just met and they won’t travel thousands of miles to visit with someone who has never visited them.

If you notice anything strange or out of place, mark it as a warning sign. When you have enough warning signs it is time to get away from her. And no matter what she says, do not send her money.

Do not let your sound judgment get glazed over with false promises of paradise. There is an infinite supply of fine foreign ladies all looking for the right man, all you have to do is make yourself available and don’t get caught up on one single girl you have never met.

This is why meeting several women from the same region is important, because travel is a huge part of discovering your foreign love. You need to set yourself up with options from which to create opportunities.

Where The Real Sharks Swim

The sharks who are looking to eat you alive are not the foreign ladies you may meet but rather the online dating sites and marriage agencies who promise to deliver you the girl of your dreams for a small fee of course.

Unfortunately most sites and agencies are more interested in suctioning money out of your pocket than pumping your life full of love.

Do not join agencies and paid sites which fail to offer at least a 30-day money back guarantee. Compare services and prices for introductions, some businesses demand insanely high prices just for the email and basic information of one woman.

If you pick 2 or 3 foreign women from a site’s profile options you find attractive but the agency does not have their information on hand or cannot offer proof they delivered your message to her, get your money back right away! They are in all probability paying models for pictures to hook you in and then switch to real women who are available but you have no interest in meeting.

If a company tries to force you or applies pressure for you to sign up for their “romance tour” leave the site and get your money back. To spot a good agency is not easy. Some positive signs you can check for are customer testimonials, affordable prices, validation of message delivery and well maintained websites.

Foreign Women At Your Feet

Now that you know the fundamentals to beating scams it is time to meet the foreign women you are looking for.

The first thing you want to do is make sure you know the country and city or cities you will be traveling to. It can become easy to meet real head turning girls from all over the World but it can get complicated trying to visit with the ones you like most.

Remember do not get caught up on one woman at first. So make sure you know for certain the fist city and country you will be traveling to. Get online, there are great free social sites like MySpace, Hii5, Facebook etc. where you can meet foreign women. Look for ladies who live near where you are going and who match your tastes.

Don’t waste your time on women who are gorgeous but you have nothing in common with. There are tons of women to meet and you want to focus on the ones that share deeper interests with you.

Over the weeks and months you will find women who become your friend and introduce you to other women who become more than your friend. You will meet women who turn you off completely and you will meet some women who make your heart stop.

When you have a list of ladies who are looking forward to your arrival… book a flight. About two weeks before your departure start making first dates. If you are going for ten days it is recommended you have a minimum of 3 first dates for the first 4 days. The rest of the time you can spend it with the one or two or three girls you hit it off with the most. Or you can continue filling your days and passing your nights with fresh new dates.

Either way, make sure you have a great time and slow down to smell what makes a foreign culture unique. Enjoy your time with all the women you meet, do not force a marriage, allow it to happen naturally (and only after spending some time with each other). Follow your dreams bravely and discover your own personal success with a foreign woman. May your love grow beyond borders.

By: Carlos M Duran

About the Author:
Carlos Duran is a professional researcher and writer raised between New Jersey and New York during the crack era of the late 80′s and 90′s. He developed a passion for foreign women early in life. Carlos is inspired to help others find love and their soul-mate over the internet. His website http://www.foreignwomen.answersyoucanuse.com is dedicated to helping men find foreign women for marriage, love and friendship online.

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Teaching English As A Foreign Language



My friend Sarah lives about three hours north of New York City, and is teaching English as a foreign language to four young women who work in a Chinese restaurant in the nearby town. They meet once a week, with the girls coming in to Sarah’s living room with the delicious odors of shrimp and fried rice trailing them. Sarah finds that audio books are very helpful in this process, for hearing the same words and phrases repeated over and over plants the words very firmly in their minds. The four young women are all smiles and giggles, and sometimes Sarah thinks that her teaching English as a foreign language class is more a game to them. But after she hears that the two audio books she gave them were fought over by the four girls, she realized how serious they were about their studies. When Sarah visited the restaurant and listened, she realized that most of the conversation in the restaurant was not in English, for both the staff and the customers. Sarah was one of the few Americans in the place. The importance of hearing English daily through those audio books was very important, almost as much as her teaching English as a foreign language to them.

One aspect that she truly liked about the audio book was its agreement with her methods of teaching English as a foreign language. Sarah liked to begin with daily conversations, and emphasize the “give and take” of simple conversations. The audio book’s structure had the same format, using simple conversations as a tool for correct word pronunciation. It pleased and astonished Sarah that the girls learned a true American sound very quickly, even before they realized the real meanings of the phrases. The first conversations that Sarah had taught were simple waitress phrases, but after the visit to the restaurant she decided that she preferred the audio book’s emphasis on simple daily conversations. In addition, the girls got great fun out of “conversing” with each other, and “conversing” with the audio book, and dissolving into fits of giggles. Maybe the humor was a bit obscure, but teaching English as a second language was turning out to be great fun.

There certainly was a more serious side to this too. Employees of small Chinese restaurants like this who do not learn English simply remain as restaurant workers, and can get moved to other states as the need for employees in those places increases. Having someone teach English as a foreign language allows them to choose to remain in the area if they wish, and increases the girls chances of eventually choosing another career. Whether or not the girls thought about all of this, they did cherish their audio books of English conversation and pronunciation as true treasures. Teaching English as a second language had become an important part of Sarah’s life and a very important foundation stone in the girls’ lives. Their audio books would probably be a treasured memento for years, long past the time they were needed.

By: Steve Hill

About the Author:
Talking Book Store is a exciting audio book website offering both free and paid audiobooks. Their ever growing catalogue contains over 1,000 titles.

They make it easy to discover the fascinating world of the spoken word. Many English as a foreign language courses

can be downloaded without subscriptions at the site.

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